Dear
Chocolate bunnies have been tempting me for months... I wish you a blessed Easter period, whether you celebrate in a religious way or not. May you get some meaningful recharge time, too.
Over the years I've worked with many introverts and sensitive souls who feel called to make a difference in the world by starting a business to support others (eg with coaching, EFT and so on).
Most of them had various levels of fear getting in the way, or stopping them from even starting.
I know this road very well myself. I've walked it too. You might grin when I tell you this: When I started this newsletter in 2006, I was too afraid to write any of my own thoughts. I copied (with permission) inspiring articles from other sources and sent them out - because I was too scared of criticism or judgment. :)
So yes - I understand this.
Perhaps you feel the same, or know someone who is in this boat? This article might help!
Do these fears seem familiar?
❖ I can’t publish a website – if it leads to no results, I’ll feel like it was a whole lot of wasted time and effort. Plus – I'll be too visible.
❖ I can’t put my contact details on said website – it’s unsafe.
❖ What if I do a terrible job as a coach? I'll be judged and criticized.
❖ I can’t put my photo on the website – someone will recognize me and report me to people I care about, and they won’t love me anymore.
❖ I’m afraid to share my story – I’ll be misunderstood and judged.
❖ I might have to do something like talk about my work publicly - and I want to be swallowed whole when I think about it.
❖ I’m afraid to look for clients – I’ll feel defeated if no-one comes.
❖ What if no client ever returns because I was so bad? I'll feel rejected.
This is familiar territory for introverts - you're not alone if you feel like this. I've been there - and so many of my clients too.